The Truth Is In The Pattern, Not The Words

The Truth Is In The Pattern, Not The Words

When it comes to people, it’s all about the pattern, not the message. Sure, the message is what they want you to believe, who they want to appear to be. But patterns—that’s where the truth lies.

People can rehearse charm and practice remorse, but their behavior? That’s reliable. It’s like a movie scene—you can focus on the subtitles (the words they say), but the scene (the actions they take) tells you everything you need to know.

The message might shift with the moment, but behavior repeats. And if you want the real story, you’ll stop paying attention to the script and start watching how they act. The truth was never hidden—it was just waiting for you to see it.